indeed, please use PM's for Personal messages; that is messages intended for one person. as is this thread is clearly made to shame a specific person, something that is uncalled for. if you can not resolve an issue civilly between yourself and another forum goer, then please contact a admin or mod, if you feel the other person is being abusive. if not try and ignore them.
Though I don't claim to know the full details here I am locking this thread because it seems abusive.