See page 2, I tried...
Anyways, this is the summary of alien psychology. They don't understand you and we don't understand them. Trying to grasp their concepts are hard, since we have a different understanding with the world. It is basically like discussion, except that they have a different opinion and everybody starts a fight because of misunderstandings. Trying to understand them is hard, but if you are tolerant or just amoral, then go for it. See it as a suicide attempt. We can already see different religions in our world, and wars caused by spices alone. How about a world in which is a melting pot of civilizations, technically?